Think about the effect the birth of a child with SLD/PMLD/CLDD has on the family as they grow
older. What difficulties might the family
encounter?
Compare your answer with this list.
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2. Strained emotional relationships.
3. Restricted social life.
4. Higher stress levels.
5. Modifications to family activities and goals.
6. Time restrictions caused by care demands.
7. Sleep deprivation.
8. Performing unpleasant procedures.
9. Lack of babysitters.
10. Challenges in day-to-day life.
This list is drawn from Olssen and Hwang (2003) and Runciman and McIntosh (2003)
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Listen to Harvey's dad talk about how Harvey's disabilities affect their leisure times as a family.
Read this short account of how the birth of a much loved son affected one family.
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Joshua was a fighter. After five months and three operations, he left hospital with oxygen to aid his breathing, and special food for his nasogastric tube. He thrived at home, although his developmental delay became quickly apparent, and every milestone was hard won.
By 18 months, his profound physical disability meant he needed a side lying board to aid positioning and postural drainage. Where, in the modern semi, do you store oxygen cylinders, cases of special food and side lying boards? John and Carrie's mortgage for their home was based on two salaries, but Joshua's care needs and frequent epilepsy meant Carrie could not return to work. Mortgage repayments became a nightmare.
After five years of struggling, John and Carrie lost their home when it was repossessed.
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Write down everything you might do on a busy Saturday.
How might you have to change your activities to take account of a child
with SLD/PMLD/CLDD?
Think about how the following might impact on your plans:
- Time
- Transport
- Accessibility
- Medication
- Your other children
- Care needs
- Your and the child's physical strength/stamina/tolerance
- Expenses
Researchers for the Foundation for People with Learning Disabilities' 'First
Impressions' project (2005) interviewed 22 parents of disabled children
and asked them to describe the challenges which faced them in negotiating
day-to-day life.
They found that:
Finding a suitable parking space and an appropriate shopping trolley, using public transport and sourcing a strong enough buggy when the child outgrows their pushchair, all create stress. Public transport is particularly inaccessible for disabled children and adults. (p.12).