the family
Listen to Ruth, Emma's mother, talking about the impact on family life of having a child with complex needs.
Beresford's (1995) research in Britain shows that children with complex difficulties require much greater access to resources in terms of:
- Time
- Money
- Expertise
These resources are much greater than those required by an ordinary child. Beresford found that it is the chronic and long-term aspect of care and dependency that many parents find wearing.
In 2004, the same pattern emerged from 'No time for us', a survey of 2,000 parents by Contact a Family. The report highlighted a range of issues including problems in relationships, stress, depression (with a majority of 76%) and financial difficulties. As a result of this survey, the charity decided to focus on:
- Doing more to support parents in work.
- Tackling family poverty.
- Tackling housing problems.
- Addressing the emotional needs of parents and the wider family
For a greater understanding of the emotional impact on the family, see the module Talking to Families; Listening to Families.
Watch the video of Emma's mother talking about the impact of Emma being diagnosed and the first few years post-diagnosis.

